Legs of adolescent girls

If this phase is successfully overcome, the child develops a new consciousness, a new self-perception, the ability to evaluate and develop his qualities and abilities and to work on his deficits. The child separates from his parents but maintains a good relationship with them. In order to successfully manage the transition phase and avoid complications, parents must be flexible, work on a trusting relationship and recognize the right to independence, independent choice and important decisions at an early stage.

How to raise a teenage girl

Dizziness in children and adolescents

Dizziness is a subjective feeling of instability of the body and/or a feeling of rotation of objects in the environment. This condition is associated with a loss of balance and is often the cause of falls. It can occur at any age and is not a disease in itself. It is simply a symptom indicating damage or impairment to the brain or spinal cord, the middle or inner ear, the vestibular or auditory nerve, or a circulatory disorder in the neck or head can point out. Dizziness can also occur against the background of functional impairment or be a variant of normal. Regardless of the severity of the symptom, it requires a thorough examination.

The neurologists of the pediatric department of the SM Clinic in Moscow are engaged in the diagnosis and treatment of dizziness in children and adolescents. Thanks to extensive experience and modern diagnostic equipment, they can make a correct diagnosis in most cases. If necessary, specialists from related fields such as otolaryngologists, endocrinologists, etc. are called in to treat the patient. For diseases that require complex, highly specialized treatment, the child is referred to a specialized hospital.

Dizziness is one of the most common symptoms that doctors have to deal with. Not only teenagers, but also small children have to do with it. The main problem in diagnosis in this case is to recognize the dizziness in the first place, especially if the child is not yet able to talk about his symptoms. Regardless of age, it is important not to delay visiting a specialist.

classification

Dizziness can be physiological or pathological. The physiological type is a temporary condition related to looking at moving objects, motion sickness in traffic, etc. It is not associated with any illness or functional impairment. Pathological dizziness is divided into systemic and non-systemic dizziness. The former is associated with damage to one or another part of the vestibular apparatus (inner ear, nerve bundles, vestibular and oculomotor nuclei, cerebellum and a number of other structures). The non-systemic variant is associated with vascular disorders, low blood sugar, sudden drop in blood pressure, etc.

There are also other classification variants:

Adolescent development: the brain

Neuroscientific research has shown that an infant's brain is very plastic. This allows the child to quickly adapt to external conditions, actively grow and develop. Plasticity decreases from year to year, but is still quite high in the teenage years (10-15 years). This time is the last opportunity to create new neural connections and strengthen existing ones that will be crucial for the rest of life.

What a teenager is taught during this period remains with him forever. That is why it is so important what kind of environment a child grows up in and what rules and norms are instilled in him.

When raising an adolescent girl, it is crucial to instill in her the right attitudes that will stay with her throughout her life. These are the principles of independence, self-esteem, the foundations of emotional intelligence, healthy self-esteem, ambition, etc.

Learn how to instill in your child the right attitudes that will help him in the future, in Dmitry Karpachev's free online masterclass 'What every parent should know'.

Teenage girls: changing the body

In her book 'Beside the Teenage Girl', F. Dolto writes: 'It can be said that we are born twice: the first time to exist, the second time to live; the first time we find ourselves in a room, the second time we find a gender. . Girls watch with amazement the metamorphosis that takes place in their bodies. The face loses its childlike contours, the cheekbones become more prominent, the chin and lips gain a clearer contour. The breasts start to grow. This process is painful both physiologically and psychologically. Girls even try to wear baggy clothes to hide their growing breasts. Any contact with her causes discomfort, the child loses weight and becomes irritable. It is important to choose suitable underwear for your teenager that is made of soft material without seams to avoid discomfort.

Menarche – the first period

The first menstruation

The development of an adolescent girl between the ages of 11 and 12 has its own characteristics. It is the time of the first menstruation. It is the mother's job to prepare her daughter for this event. She needs to explain to her why this happens and how she can maintain hygiene during her period. If the child has severe lower abdominal pain in the first days of the period, the gynecologist will select safe painkillers.

Baldness

As a result of sex hormones, hair loss occurs on the legs, armpits and groin area. This is another reason for complexes. And no persuasion will help here - a girl will really suffer and be ashamed of her appearance until she masters safe and inexpensive methods of combating unwanted vegetation at this age. There are two of them: razors and depilatory cream. Parents should not ridicule their child's concerns or prohibit basic personal hygiene during this difficult time.

Preventive examinations for stretch marks in children

To find out why your child has suddenly developed stretch marks, you should consult your pediatrician. He or she can then refer the patient to an endocrinologist, rheumatologist and other specialists. To clarify the cause of the defects, an examination is required, which usually includes:

  • general blood and urine tests;
  • biochemical blood tests (the list of specific tests may vary depending on the patient's age)
  • Determination of adrenal hormone levels in the blood;
  • ECG;
  • Ultrasound examination of the abdominal organs and kidneys;
  • CT or MRI of the adrenal glands;
  • MRI, X-ray or CT scan of the Turkish saddle.

If necessary, the diagnosis is supplemented by further examinations and consultation with specialists in this field.

Course of the crisis for girls and boys

Girls and boys go through puberty in different ways. In girls, the first signs of puberty usually appear around the age of 10 or 11. However, among girls the signs of the crisis are not very pronounced. Boys reach puberty later - around 12 or 13 years old. However, the course of their crisis period is much more pronounced. This is primarily due to the fact that society traditionally places stricter demands on boys and men than on girls and women.

The following characteristics are most pronounced in adolescent boys:

  • Aggression, anger. Your behavior in relationships with both peers and adults - parents, teachers - changes. This is mainly due to the increased production of testosterone in the body.
  • Sudden outbursts of emotions.. Mood swings, such as B. unjustified aggression are caused by hormonal changes.
  • Subdued feeling of fear. Young people often engage in extreme sports and undertake rash actions. This is also due to the changed testosterone level.
  • Desire for autonomy. Boys want to be seen as mature men. To achieve this, they must solve problems on their own, which is not always possible for teenagers. The inability to deal with adversity independently leads to psychological imbalance.
  • The desire to live the life of a grown man. Young people want to perform sensational actions and even stunts. However, they are not always aware of the consequences of their rash actions.
  • Interest in intimate aspects of life.. This manifests itself in a strong attraction to the opposite sex.
  • Preoccupation with external appearance.. It is a misconception that boys care less about their appearance than girls. Appearance changes make teenagers vulnerable, and dissatisfaction with their appearance leads to withdrawal, insecurity, and low self-esteem. They cannot tolerate criticism and thoughtless comments are received very negatively.

Recommendations for parents to cope with the crisis

Despite the difficulties in communicating with parents and actively seeking separation, the adolescent needs adequate support and protection from adults during a crisis. Parents must give up their previous forms of control and give their child the necessary amount of freedom.

Every child is unique and it is up to the parents to find an approach. But a few simple guidelines help to understand the young person and overcome the crisis:

  • Walk around inconspicuously. A friendly, calm approach can help overcome misunderstandings and aggression. Participating in life situations and sharing common interests to help the child solve problems, if necessary in a non-intrusive manner.
  • Show interest in hobbies. It's a good idea to share your child's interests, talk to him about his hobbies, talk to him about his thoughts and get his views.
  • Respect their emotional differences.. A violent reaction should not result in an emotional outburst in return.
  • Leave space. It is important to give the child their own space and, if possible, their own room. The desire to control one's actions, interests and feelings should be limited.

You should also follow a few rules when talking to your child Follow a few rules:

  • Don't give lectures. Even small children do not like lectures, and in a teenager they will only provoke protests and aggression. After a few minutes, you need to turn your attention to something else.
  • Don't blame, don't criticize. All comments should be written in a friendly manner, without accusations, lectures or requests.
  • Discuss during breaks. Teenagers are not always ready for serious face-to-face conversations. If you pay more attention to a child's problems, his or her autonomy will feel attacked. But a discreet conversation during joint activities will produce results.
  • The sound should not be shrill. Calm conversations are more effective than shouting and outrage.
  • Praise. Because of their insecurities, teenagers desperately need praise and recognition.
  • Communicate with your child via instant messaging and social media. Children spend a lot of time on smartphones and tablets. Instant messaging is everyday life for them. Communication in this environment allows for conversations in a way that the child is comfortable with.
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