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Early and late puberty in teenagers

Puberty presents many problems for both children and their parents. The child's body grows, its appearance changes, hormonal changes occur, which manifest themselves externally in the form of changes in the genital organs and new physiological phenomena. How can you tell if everything is okay with your daughter or son? What can you do if puberty starts too early or not at all?

Puberty, or adolescence, is a time when a child goes through several important changes in the body. These changes are physiological, psychological and emotional in nature and mean that the child gradually leaves childhood and enters puberty.

The changes taking place during this time include:

1. physical growth and development of the body, affecting both appearance and internal organs;

1. changes in the reproductive organs;

1. brain changes;

1. Changes in emotions, relationships and social bonds.

How is this expressed?

Girl

The first visible sign of the onset of puberty is the onset of breast development, which begins around the age of 10-11. When a girl needs a bra, a padded top or a sports bra is a good choice to start with.

Another sign that a daughter is hitting puberty is accelerated growth. Some body parts grow faster than others and this can cause her to look awkward and uncomfortable for a while. Explain to your daughter that this is only temporary and that everything will be back to normal in a few years (or months). On average, teenage girls grow about 5 to 20 cm per year and stop growing by the age of 16 or 17.

Your daughter's body will also change: her hips will expand, her external genitalia will enlarge, and her pubic hair will grow. At the age of 12-14 (two years after the start of breast growth) the hair under the arms also starts to grow. Menstruation begins at the same time. Your daughter may experience headaches or abdominal cramps before and during her menstrual period. Menstruation may be irregular at first, but then become more regular. If during this period your daughter is tormented by itching, severe pain or other unpleasant symptoms, you should consult a doctor.

Boys

By the age of 11 to 13, the external genitalia begin to enlarge and pubic hair begins to form. At the age of 12 to 14, your son will experience an acceleration in growth. He's getting taller and his chest and shoulders are broadening. As with girls, different parts of the body can grow at different rates, which is why a teenager can appear unkempt.

On average, boys grow 10-30 cm per year and stop growing by the age of 18-20 years. It is also common for teenage boys to have small mammary glands. This is normal and usually goes away on its own, but if your son is concerned or his breasts continue to grow, you should see a doctor.

Around the age of 13 to 15, hair begins to grow on other parts of the body as well – under the arms, on the face and the rest of the body. The body produces more testosterone, which stimulates sperm production. Your son begins having nocturnal orgasms and occasionally gets an erection, often for no reason at all. Talk to your child about the fact that this is natural and usually goes unnoticed. By the age of 14-15, the Adam's apple becomes more prominent and the teen's voice 'breaks in' and eventually deepens.

First visit to the gynecologist

If you are a virgin and attend a routine pelvic exam at an educational facility or county health center, the initial exam may be limited to a brief medical history and a visual inspection of the external genitalia. If visual examination reveals any discomfort or abnormalities, a rectal exam — an examination through the rectum — may be needed to assess the condition of the internal genitals. If you are sexually active or have had an intimate relationship involving vaginal penetration, even at the age of 13, 14, 15 or 16, the gynecologist will examine you on a chair like an adult woman. A gynecological examination - ultrasound of the pelvis, fluoride swabs - can be useful. However, this examination can only be carried out in a clinic.

In general, a visit to the gynecologist for an examination at the age of 15-16 looks like this.

The gynecological examination for adolescents that takes place for the first time at the age of 14 and over, e.g. B. in grades 9-10-11, usually starts with a conversation like any other doctor's visit. The doctor inquires about the state of health and any complaints related to the genital organs. The next step is a general investigation. It begins with an examination of the girl's skin, assessing the color and condition of her hair (pubic hair, armpits). Then the mammary glands are examined and palpated to rule out the presence of suspicious masses. Further examination takes place on the gynecological chair, which the girls fear the most. Depending on the version, the patient is in a supine or semi-recumbent position, with the legs bent at the knees and the feet resting on special supports. In this position, the girl's external genitals are examined and a vaginal and/or anal examination is performed.

Tips that make visiting the doctor easier and easier

1. Don't watch such videos on the internet or study other 'guides'. – this only increases the feeling of fear, because everything that is presented is far from reality;
2. During the examination on the gynecological chair, relax as much as possible - the discomfort is due to the tension;
3. Trust the doctor – you are not the first person to be examined by a gynecologist at 14-15 and 16 years old in the chair;
4. Take a shower but do not wash your genitals for at least 3-4 hours before the exam;
5. Don't intentionally shave or wax your hair—pubic hair is an indicator of puberty progression and hormonal status in general.

Then everything will depend on the results of the test. If everything is ok, you can go home. If not, the doctor in the examination room will issue a referral to a specialist in pediatric and adolescent gynecology.

Did you turn 15? Adolescent girls who have reached the age of 15 can arrange their first visit to the gynecologist alone, ie unaccompanied (read what Russian law says about this in the article 'Going to the gynecologist without parents').

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At what age and how do teenage relationships develop?

12-13 years

Teenagers experience their first love at a relatively young age. Around the age of twelve or thirteen.

During this time, teenagers are out and about in public. They go to the cinema. At exhibitions. To the theater. They spend all their free time together. They hug and kiss each other on the cheek.

Between the ages of 12 and 13 it is easy to find out that your son/daughter is dating someone. Your child will probably tell you they are in a relationship. Your job at 12-13 years old is to support your child. Don't tell him that this relationship could end badly. That your studies could suffer as a result. And so forth. This will create a serious barrier between you.

Age 14-16.

At fourteen and sixteen, teenage relationships reach a new level. They start leaving home late. They go not only to cinemas, exhibitions and theaters, but also to cafes. A coffee shop, for example. Or in a fast food restaurant.

Teens between the ages of 14 and 16 don't just kiss on the cheek. They also French kiss each other. During this time it is very important to talk about intimacy.

If you have a daughter, talk to her about intimacy. Find out if she has intentions to get intimate with a boy. If it seems like there is such an intention, have a conversation. Explain to the girl that 14-16 is a very early age for sexual activity.

16-17 years

Around the age of sixteen to seventeen, teenagers begin to take relationships to a new, more serious level. You feel real love. They care about each other. They act like a real married couple.

During this time, they are more likely to become physically intimate. You need to have a conversation with your child. Explain what type of contraceptive to use. How it should behave during use. How to be hygienic. And so forth.

Advice for parents on how to behave when their child has a partner

Maintain a relationship with the parents of your child's partner

Talk to the parents of your child's partner regularly. Congratulate them on holidays. Call each other. Talk to them about different topics. Invite them to events (if you're interested in speaking with them).

Your child will appreciate that loyalty. It will be glad that you accepted his chosen one. And it will be happy that it can communicate with its parents.

It will be good for you too. Not only can you have fun with the other family, but you can also have more control over your child.

Do not interfere in your child's relationships

Many parents make a big mistake and try to interfere in relationships. However, that is not good. Apart from arguing with your child.

After all, we live in the twenty-first century. There are many ways to overcome inhibitions about communicating with your partner. Be aware that during puberty children become teenagers with adolescent maximalism.

If you forbid a teenager to communicate with their partner, they will not listen. He will continue to meet in secret. As a result, you will not get what you want. But your relationship with your child will be damaged.

What should you do if you do not like your child's chosen one?

If the chosen one does not suit your child for serious, objective (.) reasons, have a conversation. Explain to your teen why you think the relationship is bad. Give serious arguments. With arguments and facts.

The process of puberty

Puberty in girls goes through different phases. At the first stage, a girl's breasts begin to form. This starts with a small lesion called the breast bud. In girls going through puberty, breast development can begin at the age of 9-11, sometimes it is just one breast. Usually, within a few months, the other side will begin to grow as well, which is perfectly normal. In gynecology, two phases of this process are distinguished.

stages of puberty in girls

stages of physical development.

1. Telarche is the first stage of sexual maturity, the development of the mammary gland buds, and occurs around the age of 10-11 years. It is caused by an increase in circulating levels of estrogen. At the same time, the telarche is the saturation of the vaginal and uterine mucosa with hormones.

2. Pubarche: This is the beginning of pubic hair growth, which is very fine and straight. It usually appears around the same time as chest and armpit hair growth, but can also appear a little later, around the age of 12-13.

3. Adrenarche: In this phase, the pubic hair increases in number and changes in texture from fine to coarse. This is also when armpit hair starts to develop and body odor begins. In girls, acne also begins to appear during this phase. This phase occurs in the years between the first breast bud and the first menstrual period.

When something went wrong.

Puberty is part of normal growth and development. If puberty is delayed or comes on too early, it can be a sign that medical attention is needed. The following symptoms may indicate a problem and should be discussed with a pediatric gynecologist:

• Mammary gland buds or fine pubic hair appear before 8-10 years of age;
• By the age of 13-14, a teenage girl is not developing breasts;
• At the age of 15-16 years there is no menstruation.

How do you raise a teenage daughter?

The reason for most of the problems is that the girl is already an adult, although she remains dependent on her parents. But the adults still communicate with her as if she were a little girl. They teach her what is right and what is wrong and want her to obey them like a five year old, not overcoming and seeking their approval and praise.

But a growing girl already sees herself as a person who can have her own opinions and desires, and does not have to agree with her parents on everything. If they don't understand them, it can escalate into a serious conflict. In this case, you need to know how to restore relationship with your teenage daughter. This isn't always easy, especially when the family hasn't developed a trusting, open relationship where there is room for self-expression.

But if parents know how to behave towards their teenager, if they understand what is going on inside her, many conflicts can be avoided and the teenage crisis will be relatively mild.

Give your daughter enough attention and support

What should you do if your daughter is constantly shutting down, getting angry, holding a grudge, locking herself in her room and showing that she doesn't need your advice? Show that you are on their side after all. Keep calm, support them, don't ignore them. Despite actively trying to grow up, teenagers are sensitive and fragile.

Treat her like a person

In order to raise a 12-14 year old teenager, one must be aware that she is already an adult. She has her desires, her need to adopt a certain value system, to see herself as part of the world, in relationships, in family, in society.

Rebuild the relationship

At this age, your daughter already feels like an independent personality and wants to decide for herself what she wants to do, how she wants to dress, with whom she wants to communicate. And if this does not endanger her health and well-being, then parents must give her some freedom and respect her daughter's opinion.

Causes of tremor in different age groups

Tremor in teenagers is a common phenomenon that occurs during hormonal changes. Brain immaturity results in the child's inability to process a large amount of information in school and extracurricular activities. This is reflected in the abnormal functioning of the nervous system and leads to tremors in the hands. In adolescents, the tremor can occur at rest and increase with physical activity or excitement. The child can withdraw, which leads to the development of nervous disorders and complexes. Parents should give the child moral support to make them understand that they are just like everyone else, and then the depression will quickly subside. When doing sports in the gym, young people experience physical exertion, which is also considered to be the cause of tremors. Athletes sometimes suffer head injuries that are associated with tremors. Limbs may also begin to tremble if a person remains in the same posture for a long time. In adults, the tremors are caused by a sudden drop in blood sugar levels. This can be due to pathological or physiological causes. Tremor attacks occur in people with early-stage diabetes, pancreatic tumors, liver disease, and alcoholism. Hand tremors are sometimes caused by excitement and fright. It subsides spontaneously after a while. With prolonged anxiety, a person develops depression, which leads to physical and nervous exhaustion. Even minor stress and physical exertion can cause tremors. The sufferer feels anxious, homesick, cries frequently, and becomes withdrawn. Tremors can also occur in people who abuse alcohol or drugs. In adults, the right hand may tremble due to impaired cerebral blood flow in the right hemisphere, and the left hand may tremble when the hand is heavily weighted or when carrying heavy objects. Incomplete nerve entrapment due to a hernia or a tumor can also cause a tremor. Hand tremor in the elderly can be a symptom of various diseases. Tremor occurs mainly as a result of damage to the liver, kidneys, thyroid gland or after taking certain medications. Tremor is not uncommon in Parkinson's disease. Statistically, Parkinson's disease is most common in people over the age of 60. The upper limbs tremble even at rest. Wilson-Conoval disease can cause tremors in older people. It is characterized by an imbalance in the body's copper metabolism. The copper gradually accumulates in the organs and has a toxic effect throughout the body.

symptoms

Tremor in adults can be accompanied by the following symptoms

• dizziness
• Headache
• increasing anxiety
• pronounced weakness
• aggressiveness
• Rapid heartbeat
• insomnia
• loss of appetite
• chest pain

The following symptoms occur in older people

• Stiffness and slowing of movements
• Gait disturbances
• Changes in speech, lack of emotional content
• postural instability
• excessive salivation
• excessive sweating
• problems urinating
• constipation
• Impaired memory
• decreased libido
• depression

When the spasms are caused by multiple sclerosis, the patient may complain of difficulty swallowing, pain and double vision, numbness and goose bumps in different parts of the body. Wilson-Conov disease can cause fever, seizures, memory loss, and aggressiveness.

When should I start waxing for the first time?

It is difficult to say exactly at what age the first waxing should be done. The process of puberty is different for every girl. Hair may appear as early as 10-11 years of age in one child, and as late as 13 in another. Their color and length are also individual and depend on the genes.

An important task of parents is to talk to their daughter, to explain to her that hair, even in the intimate area, is completely normal and to inform her about the easiest and most effective way to get rid of it, and how to clean the area, if necessary desensitized.

You can first get acquainted with the modern hair removal methods and find out which one is the least annoying.

What you should know about hair removal

The skin of young girls is more sensitive and delicate than that of an adult woman. Teenagers are often worried about the discomfort, so they are recommended a less painful depilation that they can do in the comfort of their own home.

If a long-lasting effect is important, an epilator can be used, but if you need to remove hair quickly, use a razor, preferably with three or more blades, as it is less traumatic.

You don't have to limit yourself to one method, you can also combine them, e.g. B. Epilate the legs with an epilator and the armpits with a razor.

You can also have a professional depilation done with wax or sugar paste. This is a very convenient solution for young people who find it difficult to shave regularly.

In the pubic area, hair should not be removed, as this is necessary for the doctor to monitor the correct course of puberty.

Like everything related to puberty, hair removal is taboo for many teenagers and their parents. The first menstruation, the physical changes, the first hair removal – all these things are discussed with friends rather than with parents. But the advice of a seasoned adult can keep you from experimenting with untested home remedies linked to allergies or chemical burns.

Features of the onset of the transition in girls

As we have already established, the transition age is directly related to puberty. It is a time when the youthful body undergoes significant changes and hormonal shifts occur.

These changes cannot go unnoticed as they have a global impact on the entire body. The transition begins in most cases at the age of 9-10 years. The brain signals internal organs that the transition period is about to begin, affecting both physiological and psychological traits.

In this material we will focus more on the psychological signs of puberty, but preparation should begin when the following external changes occur:

• Increasing hairiness of the skin.
• Growth of the bones in the pelvic region, causing them to gain width.
• The beginning of the development of the mammary glands.
• Enhanced growth.
• Acne on face, neck and back.
• onset of menstruation.

It can never be determined exactly when a girl experiences the first psychological changes. They are often associated with the onset of menstruation, but can also become noticeable earlier.

Peculiarities of the psychology of adolescence

As a person grows up, they become more aware of the world around them. During puberty you become much more reflective, which inevitably leads to changes in your psyche.

For adolescents, the desire to stand out from the crowd, to define themselves and to identify with a certain age group is of great importance. Young people therefore often become part of a subculture or look for an idol, a role model that they want to emulate.

The desire to change not only oneself but also the world around oneself also leads to the formation of political attitudes. This too can entail certain risks for the child.

How to remove stretch marks on a teenager? Ways of treating stretch marks

There are a number of methods for removing stretch marks from the skin, but in order to effectively combat this blemish, a number of factors must be taken into account - from possible contraindications to the age of the stretch marks.

cosmetic treatments

Among the treatments offered in beauty salons today, the following are common and approved for teenagers:

• Wraps. Suitable for very fresh and small stretch marks. One of the most pleasant techniques - it does not cause pain and can please the scents. Laminaria, honey, chocolate, cocoa and grape wraps are used to combat stretch marks on teenage skin.
• Peeling with fruit acids. Most effective on fresh stretch marks. Getting rid of old stains requires multiple sessions or a combination of different procedures.
• Mechanical peels. Considered to be one of the most effective types of scrubs and helps fight weeping stretch marks.

Advantages: The cosmetic procedures are performed by professionals, which eliminates the risk of improper product use. These techniques not only fight stretch marks, but also have an overall positive effect on the skin.

Disadvantages: The most effective treatments may be contraindicated for your child due to greater traumatization or allergies to the ingredients. Also, such treatments are not cheap and multiple sessions may be required.

massage

Fermenkol Elaktin – effective elimination of stretch marks in puberty

Fermenkol Elaktin has a comprehensive effect: it destroys deformed fibers and restores a healthy skin structure. Thanks to the Nanotrop SA transdermal formula (RF Patent No. 2462265), which reversibly increases the permeability of the stratum corneum, epidermis and dermis, the product is able to treat even long-lasting and large stretch marks. Thanks to this innovation, the product penetrates deep into the stretch marks, destroying the deformed fibers and accelerating cell regeneration.

Fermenkol Elaktin is safe, contains natural ingredients and is suitable for teenagers, so you can safely use the gel to remove stretch marks on your child's body. The only exception is if you are allergic to seafood as you should not use this product. contains crab liver extract.

To reduce large and stubborn stretch marks, we recommend combining Fermenkol with physiotherapy (electrophoresis, phonophoresis) or using it together with a mesoroller.

Before ordering, we recommend that you consult a doctor. You can do this right on our website, a specialist will tell you more about the type of stretch marks and advise how to get rid of them effectively.

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